Media sucks.. It can honestly effect you in so many different ways.
They are pretty much saying you have to look like your pinky,
you have to wear loads of make up,
you have to have that long blonde curly hair,
and you have to have all those perfectly looking friends and that amazingly hot boyfriend.
WHY?.
do you have to look like that to be happy?
you can be larger to be happy.
You can have a ugly boyfriend, or maybe gross hair ,
you can have friends that maybe dont wear abercrombie &finch, hollister or guess.
as long as your boyfriend loves& cares for you,
as long as your comfortable with your hair, wear it like you please!.
as long at your friends make you laugh, are there for you, and like you for you.

Dont get me wrong I love reading my magzines,
cosmo & seventeen. They entertain me like no other.
but DONT and i repeat DONT  let that stuff get to you.
you are beautiful/handsom just the way you are,  sure  I may not know you.
but,  I know that there are people out there that love you, that are always there for you. They love you for who you are.
So please, love who you are, don’t let media effect you, or your looks.
trust me, its coming from someone who has been there before, and sometimes, thinks that she may not be over it tottaly and completly, but I try, as hard as I can to like who  I am.
Love who you are, don’t ever change for anyone.